Definition
Abbreviation for 'be f***ing for real.' Used when someone says something so absurd you need them to reconsider. Stronger than 'be serious' but less confrontational than actually arguing. Very common in texts and comments.
Translation for Parents
It stands for 'be [expletive] for real.' Your kid is telling someone to stop being ridiculous and get serious. It's the texting equivalent of giving someone a look that says 'are you hearing yourself right now?' It's everywhere in group chats.
Examples
“you think he likes you back?? bffr”
“You think he likes you? Be serious right now.”
“bffr that movie was mid”
“Be real, that movie was mediocre”
Cringe Score
Your kid will cringe
Saying 'bffr' out loud as a parent is like wearing a hat backwards at age 45. You can do it. It just sends a message you might not intend.
Category
abbreviation
Last Verified
2026-02-25
Sources
editorial, tiktok