ily / ilysm
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Abbreviations for 'I love you' (ily) and 'I love you so much' (ilysm). Used casually between close friends and romantically between partners. The abbreviated form makes it feel lighter and less intense than spelling it out. 'ily' between friends is platonic; context always matters.
Translation for Parents
They mean 'I love you' and 'I love you so much.' If your kid sends you 'ily,' that's a win. Don't make a big deal out of it or they'll never do it again. Just send one back.
Examples
“goodnight ily”
“Goodnight, I love you”
“ilysm ur the best”
“I love you so much, you're the best”
Cringe Score
Safe to use
If telling your kid you love them is cringe, we have bigger problems. Send it. Every time. They'll roll their eyes and secretly love it.
Category
abbreviation
Last Verified
2026-02-25
Sources
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